Become More of the Person You Want

by Rachel Miller

May 17, 2022

ABOVE : Ehimetalor Akhere Unuabona

Once in a while, you reflect on something you wish you could improve in yourself: more confident, more organized, more calm. How can you make it easier to create these changes in yourself?


  • Make a list of the virtues you admire. Those qualities you wish you could see more in yourself: confidence, self-discipline, generosity, etc.

  • Make a list of those you know—the communities, people, groups—that emulate those things. Make a list of those who you spend time with.
    • What comes to mind when you think of them, collectively or otherwise?
    • Who do you know that best embodies those traits?

  • Spend more time with people who emulate those characteristics. Use the power of influence to your advantage. We are who we repeatedly spend time with. Spend time with people who exemplify the characteristics you want to see more of in yourself and see how much easier it is to become more of the person you want to be for yourself.

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